6 ways we do a chill-but-orderly summer with kids
Summer’s peaking over the horizon. I’d say I’m about 70 percent happy about this, 30 percent wondering how I’ll get things done (while also not roasting alive here in central Texas).
For the first summer in years, our family is neither moving nor traveling a long distance (as far as we know now). This is a big deal for our nomadic clan, and we’re actually looking forward to it.
I love a simple summer schedule at home—letting kids sleep in, as though their bodies actually need plenty of sleep, working long one day to take the next day completely off to lounge by water with a novel while they splash, grilling dinner outside four times a week… there’s a lot to love about summer.
But, still. It can wane. Here’s a few things we do to keep summer from turning into merely a countdown for the next school year.
1. We keep to a chill routine.
I’m not letter-of-the-law here, but my kids have better attitudes if we stick to an orderly-ish day (even if they initially complain).
They don’t get screen time until they do their checklist:
- Be active outside
- Play with stuff and/or create something
- Complete a chore list
- Learn something (we do summer school lite, mostly math and writing enrichment)
- Read for at least an hour
- Have lunch
It takes a few weeks to build this habit, but eventually they don’t ask for screen time because they know I’ll ask, “Have you done your list?”
2. We read… a lot.
Actually, we read all the time anyway, so basically, we just keep this up in the summer. I make a just-for-fun summer reading list for our older two (this year’s coming to you soon!), and library trips are a weekly staple.
I’ll also continue working daily with our emerging reader (we use this), we’ll have evening family story time, as always, and we’ll have audiobooks and stories continually available, both in the car and at home.
We check out digital audiobooks from our library, but we’re also huge fans of Around the World Stories. Every week there’s a new story about a kid from somewhere in the world, and they do a fabulous job infusing cultural education through fun storytelling.
They also have additional discussion questions, history facts, basic words from the local language, recipes and activities to build on the week’s story, and links and videos for more deep-diving.
We truly love them—my kids are 12, 9, and 6, and they’re all avid listeners.
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3. The kids are apprentices…sorta.
Since Kyle and I both work from home, family and work life naturally bleed into each other during the summer. Yes, we both still need solitary time to get stuff done, but instead of fighting against the extra time with our kids, we just go with it.
Kyle’s working on our fixer-upper full-time right now, so the kids will roll up their sleeves and learn basic carpentry skills as he works. We’ve already been doing this, actually, and it’s fun to see what the kids have picked up.
My older two have varying interests in what I do, so I’ll have them help with things behind the scenes: basic Photoshop editing, organizing spreadsheets, researching ideas, and even coding.
These are all just good life skills. We’d be remiss not to have them learn while they’re still in our nest.
4. They go to camp.
Our older two look forward to camp all year, and it gives them something to anticipate. It’s only a week, and both camps are a short drive from our house, but for them it might as well be Paris, they love it so much.
Summer camp was a formative experience for both Kyle and myself growing up, and we love giving our kids the same experience.
We’ll find a day camp for our youngest this summer, so he has something to anticipate, without the potential homesickness for a barely-7-year-old.
5. We’ll do day and weekend trips.
Every couple weeks, we’ll go explore something local—a museum, a small town, a new restaurant, a new-to-us watering hole. We may even stay a weekend somewhere a few hours’ from us, just for a change of scenery.
It breaks up the summer monotony, and it gives us something to look forward to without much wait time in between.
6. We’re cool with boredom.
This might be the most important thing here… I just don’t sweat it when the kids complain of boredom. They know I’ll give them a chore when they say they’re bored, so that’s taken care of.
But even if they are—I say that’s a good thing. That’s when creativity comes to life. Kids are resilient, and they’ll come up with something. My job as a parent isn’t to be their cruise ship director.
Free play is one of the best parts of childhood, and I don’t want to rob them of that.
So, this is our general modus operandi during the summer months. Yep, we’ll be eager to return to a school routine by the fall, but I don’t want to wish it too soon.
The lazy days of summer are almost here.
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